Nicest Thing . . . |
One day a teacher asked
her students to list the names of the other
students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between
each name. Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down. It took the remainder of the class
period to finish their assignment
and, as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers. On Monday, she gave each student his
or her list. Before long, the
entire class was smiling. No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another.
That group of students moved on. Several years later, one of the students was killed in Vietnam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a serviceman in a
military coffin before. The church was packed with his friends. One by one, those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin. As she stood there, one of the
soldiers, who acted as pall bearer, came up to her. After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher. "We want to show you something," his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket. "They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it." Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notepaper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. The teacher knew, without looking, that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him. "Thank you so much for doing that," Mark's mother said. "As you can see, Mark treasured it." All of Mark's former classmates
started to gather around. That's when the teacher finally sat
down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never
see him again. The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don't know when that one day will be. So please, tell the people you love
and care for, that they are special and important. Tell them before it's too
late. Story copied from website http://www.homestead.com/laffy/Stories.html |